Today I was at school and wanted to post but because I had little time I decided to do it at home instead. I was watching this Indian movie starring Aishwarya Rai and her husband Abhishek Bachchan... the movie was really good and touching. I love the clothing and the scenery.. and Ash and Abhishek are such a hot couple. The movie is call Umrao Jaan, the name of the courtesan played by Aishwarya (Ash). Ash was very convincing with her love and passion and her crying scenes. And as for Abhishek, he was good too.. but I wasnt playing attention much to his acting but his eyes and when he smiled... ahhhhhhhhh hotness lol
So yeah I crying at some scenes... it was just so touching .. however I found out that the movie didn't do so well in India. I wonder why.
Anyway... in response to Che Trai Cay about eye contact. Well it used to be like that when I was younger and felt that it was awkward to look at someone in the eye for a long time... like just 1-3 seconds! This was only with strangers though and especially guys who I found atractive in school. Hehe. After that as I went into high school things changed. I realized that looking into someone's eyes and having that eye contact means a lot. Especially when you are talking to someone, it shows you are pay attention and caring and atleast not lying or afraid. I learned to keep my gazed and my contact for more than 3 seconds and even longer. Che Trai Cay, what you should do is maybe practice it someone who is like a kid... someone you feel you are afraid of and have authority over.. and then try with family members and so forth. Familiarized yourself with those you feel comfortable with, family members and very close friends and then try to open up to others such as classmates and teachers. You don't have to directly look into their eyes but maybe their nose or in between their eyes or even something behind them. Because to you, you are not looking at them but from their view it seems you are looking at them. I tried that in class... haha trying to pretend I am paying attention. lol. Also I learned that if you can keep eye contact instead of looking away from someone... you will gain their attention and also make a strong connecting. I know some say its rude or its creepy to stare but if you do it right, it can turn out good. Hey eye contact and or staring at someone directly and they knowing can intimidating them and or show them you are intersted. This works if you plan to court someone. Hahaha. Well Che Trai Cay, good luck and face your fear. By the way in some countries looking into someone eye is not acceptable and people will not do it.
So I'm on the phone, talking, listening, and typing one hand. Haha... igtg :)
No comments:
Post a Comment