The Days Without Guys - Day 7

i didn't have to go to school today but i woke up at 8. thats not kool! i was like no i don't wan't to get up. but i did cause u know why? i wanted my dad to go buy breakfast. the things i do for food. gahhh. i was like fighting with my sister for the hash brown. she won. -_- so sad. haha

can u say NO?
i surely cant. dude my neighbor like a month ago was like. "hey can i have your bike since you have two?" and u know what i said? YES! like ompanda! i don't even know his name. that kid is take advantage of people alright. if i was bigger than him and have a large stick. i would chase him with it to get my bike back -_-. not really but i was thinking about it. haha. i didn't want to give it away but i didn't want to be mean and say NO. even though i should of. but i cant say NO to other ppl beside my sister and brother. cause i like to torture them. haha. but after i say no to them. I still end up letting them do what they wanted. ARGH! but enough about my siblings. I WANT MY STINKING BIKE BACK. haha anyone want to go and beat up the kid and get it back for me? he took my nice one. so i'm left here with the broken up bicycle thats going to fall apart soon. o.O. every time i see that kid ride my bike outside. i have this desire to push him off the bike. haha. my bad my bad. im sorry i shouldn't be thinking such horrible thoughts but but ITS MINE! i think imma stop talking about that now. makes me more angry haha.

I have a family reunion this weekend for my cousin house warming party. i believe. its gonna be great! i'm so excited for it! -_-. gahh i hate those family meetings. cause people come and are like *in their shock face* "you.. uh.. sure.. grew bigger the last time i saw u.." no duh i got fatter gosh! say that instead of trying to be sly. haha. anyways the only thing im looking forward to is all the yummy food thats going to be presented to us for like that whole day. nonstop eating. what a life right?. but then again after its all over imma gain like 10 pounds. but who cares. as long as i was happy eating it =D.

Che 3 Mau is so greedy! wanting us to pay for going into her hole. we asian are too cheap for that. haha she should be happy that we aren't going around stealing all of her chocolate shes hiding. ^o^ haha

The Days Without Guys - Day 6

DAY 6!!!

I was going to post yesterday about my day at school when I was eating steammed dumplings and drinking iced tea but then I was interrupted by my brother in law and his friend who wanted to set up a webcam.......... long story.

So yesterday I was ordering steammed dumplings from this Vietnamese food place on campus. It is call "Tai's Viet Place." I also ordered a small homemade iced tea. The thing is I went there after the long summer break the prices changed! I was looking at the poster of prices and everything is like $5 and up or something. The cheapest items besides water, was Spring Rolls for $3 and Summer Rolls for $3.25. My steammed dumplings (8) used to be like $3.25 or less and then last semester it changed to $3.75 and now its $4! and everything else moved up a notch as well. It is such a ripped off of students. It is bad enough we have to pay so much for books, but come on ... Anyway I don't blame them much because things are changing nowadays, food prices if you checked are changing so it's nothing new. I was just upset that I'm paying almost double since the first time I ordered my delicious steammed dumplings. Btw the iced tea, small used to be 75 cents is now $1. The large iced tea was $1.25 so I guess it's $1.50 now? I didn't checked. Nevertheless I ate and drank them ... they were good hehe.

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Here lies what remains.. after I went through them :D NOTHING basically accept the iced tea, which I didn't want to drink too much of because I have a class coming up and didn't want to have to leave to use the bathroom.

I'm going to remember taking pics of my food before I hungrily chow down on them next time :D inside this bag is nothing.. just .. all gone! 8 dumplings ... mmm



















Here's a look at my iced tea...


















SO WHAT DID I DO TODAY?
-I was able to sold 2 books ... YAY made some $
-I took the bus home and it was nicely empty and quiet. YAY
-A HOT guy sat infront me today in class and I was able to stare at the back of his head lol for nearly an hour. FUN? NO YAY
- I ate some food when I got home and is now full but thirsty.
- I went home and finished advance HW, leaving me free until more HW are assigned. ...
- I text message Che Trai Cay back and forth.. (I need to check if I still have any remaining texting avaliable until SEP 22!!

YEAH THAT'S ABOUT IT TO SUM UP MY DAY THUS FAR!!! SO NOW WHAT'S YOUR STORY?

The Days Without Guys - Day 5

So the day will end in about 2 hours. Another day ends in which another will begin.

*sigh* Poor Che Xanh , Xinh Xa, and Trai Cay. School is such a drag -_-" Keep going you guys. We can do it! ... what am I kidding... Pull your hair out -_-" we're all going to sit into my hole Blah.

- - - Anyhows

I came across something interesting the other night about cheaters. and man was it a complicated triangle... hexagon....

So the story was.. A was married to B. His friend is C. A was cheating on B with D who is going with him because her boyfriend E wasn't paying enough atttention to her. A was also having an affair with F, his old school mate. A's friend, C liked F, who wasn't into him but instead into A. Since A was cheating on B with two other ladies, B felt lonely and sought for comfort in C. The two end up having an affair. At the same time while A was with D, F met D's boyfriend, E, and the two also end up in their own story. The twist was, E was actually C's little brother.

I thought it was it was funny how it ended up with all A-F meeting together and sitting right next to their secret lovers in the opera house. Haha.

Spanish - =

Spanish class. Oh boy... today we had a test in Spanish in which we were to say anything Spanish for 30 seconds. So there I was. When the teacher said start.. I started with hola... continuing on to introducing myself. . . Then. . . I started counting my numbers til the end of the 30 seconds. Haha.

But that is all for now...
My day ends here.
Goodnight now.

To my Che's. Keep Going. I love you all. You're always welcome into my hole into the ground. One Bar of Choco per admittance . ^_^

The Days Without Guys - Day 4

Day 4

Today I was at school and wanted to post but because I had little time I decided to do it at home instead. I was watching this Indian movie starring Aishwarya Rai and her husband Abhishek Bachchan... the movie was really good and touching. I love the clothing and the scenery.. and Ash and Abhishek are such a hot couple. The movie is call Umrao Jaan, the name of the courtesan played by Aishwarya (Ash). Ash was very convincing with her love and passion and her crying scenes. And as for Abhishek, he was good too.. but I wasnt playing attention much to his acting but his eyes and when he smiled... ahhhhhhhhh hotness lol

So yeah I crying at some scenes... it was just so touching .. however I found out that the movie didn't do so well in India. I wonder why.

Anyway... in response to Che Trai Cay about eye contact. Well it used to be like that when I was younger and felt that it was awkward to look at someone in the eye for a long time... like just 1-3 seconds! This was only with strangers though and especially guys who I found atractive in school. Hehe. After that as I went into high school things changed. I realized that looking into someone's eyes and having that eye contact means a lot. Especially when you are talking to someone, it shows you are pay attention and caring and atleast not lying or afraid. I learned to keep my gazed and my contact for more than 3 seconds and even longer. Che Trai Cay, what you should do is maybe practice it someone who is like a kid... someone you feel you are afraid of and have authority over.. and then try with family members and so forth. Familiarized yourself with those you feel comfortable with, family members and very close friends and then try to open up to others such as classmates and teachers. You don't have to directly look into their eyes but maybe their nose or in between their eyes or even something behind them. Because to you, you are not looking at them but from their view it seems you are looking at them. I tried that in class... haha trying to pretend I am paying attention. lol. Also I learned that if you can keep eye contact instead of looking away from someone... you will gain their attention and also make a strong connecting. I know some say its rude or its creepy to stare but if you do it right, it can turn out good. Hey eye contact and or staring at someone directly and they knowing can intimidating them and or show them you are intersted. This works if you plan to court someone. Hahaha. Well Che Trai Cay, good luck and face your fear. By the way in some countries looking into someone eye is not acceptable and people will not do it.

So I'm on the phone, talking, listening, and typing one hand. Haha... igtg :)

Day 3 goes by..

I feel toasted like a burnt toast. haha. well that was pretty obvious but what else can i say? nothing much. i been counting down to the days till my 4 day weekend this week but it seems to go by so slow. mostly with all the homework assignment piling up and even though i don't start it till dead late at night. makes me wonder. why do i procrastinate so much? why do i always wait till the last minute to do things? why cant i be more organized? too much whys but really zero answers. but its not just me. look around u. everyone has the same problems in some form or another.

I have a problem with looking into people eyes. -_- i try my best to avoid eye contact cause its utterly awkward to do so. its like i can sense that their words aren't real or something o.O or i least i feel that it isn't if i directly look into their eyes. i have person to person contact issues i tell you. haha. maybe thats why the teacher dont think im listening in class cause dude i go out of my way not looking at them -_- therapy anyone? haha

i took a 4 hours nap today! and it feels so good. i should stop sleeping and use that time to do my homework but i cant cause why u may ask? i love to sleep i could care less about eating or watching tv or being on the computer as long as i have my sleep. haha. i could hibernate forever. its like if anyone calls me while i am sleeping i wont call back. why? because u dont exist to me when i am sleeping. haha. sleeping is my only joy now. its such a fulfilling joy. haha. it makes me wanna dance because i got my sleep. yes im rambling on about sleeping cause i can! -_-' haha.

so yeah my only highlight pretty much today at school was seeing the korean guy walk by me. haha it was like a slow motion 2 seconds but oh was it worth it. actually its not. i like his hair tho and the way he dressed. very stylish cause korean guys tend to be stylish. but i'm totally stereotyping from the korean dramas cause thats how i want all guys to look. if u don't look like that. by god. go get plastic surgery -_-. haha jk jk

i just listened to Che Xinh Xa song. i like it. but dude when they first talked on the phone i thought it was hilarious for some reason. at like 47 seconds. man i thought she said ku dien -_- i guess thai is in now? haha.

i think imma end it here cause i have piles of homework needed to be done and prolly wont get done till like 2 AM because this is the consequence of my 4 hours nap time plan. haha. oh well at least it was a lovely 4 hours. it was good while it lasted but don't worry nappie we'll do it again tomorrow afternoon after school. wait for me ;]! haha

Day 3 carries on..

Che Xinh Xa you are so cute and i love your post.. very dramatic at the start and kept me reading. it was very nice. poor you.. had to go through all that. you know what, they should make a movie or series surrounding your everyday life. hehe. what do you think?

well on to my first day back at school, it was quite boring and tiring. i was just there and yawning a lot a lot. i had a history class it was a big lecture hall and then i had an education class on communication and stuff. both of the teachers were cool and the classes seemed to be interesting. [sorry that im typing kind of blah today--]

so this guy (yeah away from boring school) imed me today and he was one of my fling from school years back. he was showing me a cool video and nothing else. he is hardly online and when he pops in once in a while he imed me about music videos. i guess its nice of him to share it but i dont know its weird. and after that he leaves and thats it. i mean ???

so i took a nap like che xinh xa too and like che trai cay... not sure about che 3 bau. but anyway it was good and right after i headed to the shower looking like a zombie. after shower i had steaks and it was Dlicious. so yeah

now im online doing this blog post .. im leaving soon tho to sleep. i need it.. if im gonna survived 3 more classes tomorrow.. sighs... bye . kisses lots and hugs lots too X :

The Days without Guys - Day 3

Day 3

Though I doubt anyone wants to know or even cares, but I just woke up from my...3 hours nap. First day of school was a trip on my nerves. But I actually survived it. So should I go into details then?






Sure, I'd love to tell you about my first day! =] I woke up today not to the tune of my alarm, but to my JJ Lin - Killer's ringtone. because yes, my family is a killer. -_-" it was my sister calling, telling me that she had forgotten the keys to the store, and wants me to drive 30MINS! to give her the keys, through traffic and school starting in an hour. I did not hesitate but grabbed my toothbrush as if it was life!...okayy, maybe I didn't do that. But I did get up and sat on the potty. =D then, being very unfeminine and un-asian like, I got ready and dressed in under 10 minutes. =O okay lets just fast forward, this is getting nowhere, and there's 24 hours in a day, we're still on the first 15minutes. -_-" in the end, I got someone to go in my place and stayed home to officially get ready for school. And while I was waiting for time to beat by, I saw someone on aim. this someone...makes me laugh. ha ha ha.

Which delayed me for about 5 minutes to leave the house because it was really funny. Apparently, so-so went on a trip and lost all of so-so's "prized possessions". how funny is that. -___-" yes i am being a total bitch, but I think it's called karma. and for being stupid too. so so-so is now all boohoohoo! And I'm all..yeayeahyeah! because everybody, I think its time I play the sympathetic friend and swoop in for my slow kill. =]

So apparently, it seems that this post is really is going to be long. like LOOONNNGGGG. ...moving on.

My "homeroom" teacher, or FOS teacher is my alg2 and pre-cal teacher aka former CIA. -__-" Which, this man is a real character, and I adore him NOW, but back then? eh! whooo could love a man for making you work your ass off on every assignment? not this asian chick! So I'm glad he chose me and a few other chicks, his "angels" as I deemed us, as his little group. Maybe one day I'll tell you about his adventures as a CIA. =]

After the meet up, now this is a whole new system they've just installed at my school, and apparently, it's so f-ed up! very confusing and bitchin'. So I walked to my first period class, to be greeted by just the sub! The new teacher that was replacing a recently retired-good-white-man-to-make-fun-of isn't there! So i sat through the whole short period, wondering why noone else is in this class except me! -_-" Apparently, I've read my schedule wrong(after class has ended, me big doofus) so I missed 1st period completely. Sat through 2nd period one more time! Like hellooooo, you're a senior, yet you can make such a HUGE mistake? -_-" bring out the torches folks, we got us an asian to set on fire. jk?

After that, things got better, saw more of my old friends, went to classes, only.... =[ i don't have lunch with any of them, except for my annoyingly corny guy friend. I cannot go through months after months of eating with him! NO!

timeout, everyone should check out this song, I think its really nice and it's been stuck in my head for some time now. yes, I think I am developing a passion for thai music O_o Does anyone know what he's doing with his hands? Does it rep something? I wanna learn it, but too lazy.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6bGWTx7IoJk
Bie - Toe Ma Wa Ruk aka Call to say I love you (and the guy is sooo cute!)

BIG annoucement, there is another asian chick at my school!! -_-" my friends tell me I'm not special anymore, because there's another one of me. lol. yeah, lemme post all about her so you guys can back me up on her assassination. lol, there's not much to tell, she's viet too, a junior, and just transferred from another school because, I quote, she "wanted to see how the other schools were". -_-" seriously, you only do that, when you go to white schools and want to go to another white school, but to go to another ghetto school? come on!!!! okay, I'll stop. or she might come after me, lol.

I did a wannabe survey of statistics for my cal teacher, and i got it right! =] can you tell the difference between pepsi and coke? I can!!!

So I have so much to think about, regarding my classes. =/ Which seriously sucks, but oh well. Otherwise, today has been great. Though in the end, I didn't get to play badminton with my friend, and I've been schedulcing this since friday! -_-" oh well. maybe some other day.

well, I'm not sure if I should go on and make this really long and boring, so I'll just end it and come back another day to write about my obsessionS. there's just so many.

I hope everyone had a good day as I sure had(NOT). if not, sorry, there will be other days. O_o wow, what has gotten into me, I'm all nice! ewww...okay, eff off folks. =]

The Days Without Guys – Day 2

Today is sunny and a very pleasant Sunday. It is something like the day before a storm, all peaceful and quiet. I want to talk about obsession today. At a young age I was very fascinated and very into the Chinese culture and especially their history. I’m obsessed with their ancient past and the clothing, the jewelry and the Chinese language. More of the influence comes from me watching Chinese drama it seems. Today I’m still watching the Chinese drama and even singing Chinese songs. I have my own little Chinese English dictionary too. Between Mandarin and Cantonese, I think I’m better with Cantonese in term of pronunciation because it is similar to Vietnamese. And so I have lesser of an accent speaking Cantonese.

“Big Girls Don’t Cry.” Yes, I’m currently listening the song by F-e-r-g-i-e while I’m typing this. I think all girls cry and even some boys too. It’s funny if you listen to the lyric of the song. Someone pointed out to me the one part where it reads “ I miss you like a child misses their blanket…” Haha. This is a bad transition I know from the last topic of obsession. Luckily I’m not writing for class or else F! Haha maybe not but like a C-. Writing is tough man. Back to the song, Fergie is growing up now; she doesn’t like to spell out words anymore. Hehe.

Guess What I’m drinking now? Minute Maid Original orange juice. It’s 100% pure squeezed they say. This bottle is 220 calories, wow. Earlier I was eating those Yan Yan dipping sticks, strawberry flavor. I shared them with my niece. It was good. Before that, I had some crabs and they were ok. I also had some green apples. I ate so much and its only 4:39 PM. Haha I’m such a pig. So what did you eat?

Day 1 and on..

well its moving on and on really rapidly i guess. i think imma write random nonsense stuff cause honestly dont know what to say. wouldn't it be easy to draw out our feelings then write about it? i know it will be much faster and a simpler way of interpreting stuff because a picture its a universal thing. someone can look at our drawings, whether its professional or just a regular stick figure drawing, and be able to understand the meaning behind it because theres not many way you can view it. while with words its harder to be able to dig deep into your thoughts. like a simple direction to make pb&j sandwich by you to someone else may be a difficult task because it all depends on how one read the words provided. one might think the other person is pure idiotic for not being able to make the sandwich but can you understand what they want with a piece of paper also?

im che trai cay cause all the good che names where taken haha. but its not bad. it has many variety like chom chom or gian or pineapples or bananas or basically any kind of fruits out there cause after all its che trai cay. this che bring out the freshness in u. cause fruits are fresh. get it? -_- prolly not but okie! lets continue. haha

guys humm i dont really mind what i get. well that dont sound right. i have standards i guess. no clue yet but i mean he cant be like hideous looking -_- cause i might not be able to sleep well at night haha jk jk. but but he has to be at least average. i dont really like the hottest guy on earth because i tend to like the guys who hide their face behind the glasses and that dark rich korean hairstyle. yeah i have a thing for koreans. so what? im not obessive -_-. maybe. but no one has to know. he has to make me laugh cause i dont want to sit there cracking jokes to myself cause that would be real awkward and not fun at all. haha. i cant cook, so thats his job now. cause if it was up to me. the house would prolly burn down the first day. and im really lazy. so if we ever have kids. i want to be the one sleeping and hes the one taking care of it -_-. haha ill prolly never get marry now with those kind of conditions.

anyong che trai cay.

Day 1 goes on - -

\ ... and so the day goes on. I'm still sitting here lost and confused. I really don't know what to do nor what to say.

But life continues as we sit here and waste time. Time... what is time? It's the best thing you'll ever receive in life whether it's for the good or the bad. Time heals a broken heart yet it also drags the pain and memory with you as the seconds pass one by one. But then again... time helps you forget.. but honestly.. when has someone ever forgotten anything? People may forgive but you know they'll never forget. As much as they pretend to.. the memory is still there. I suppose that's just a part of life..

Think of life as a piece of cake... every second you age equals the piece of cake taken away. Eventually there'll be none left... so make use of yourself. Be the best piece of cake they've ever eaten.

- - Moving on

Enough about that. Just a random blabbing. So yep. I'm Che Ba Mau. I actually had a hard time picking between all the che's since there are so many to pick from and they're all good. But I guess we can refer the components of che as a person. The more the better right? The more colorful the prettier ... the more sugar the sweeter... Even if that person wasn't composed of asweet personality or a pretty face... the more love put into making the che is what matters most. I rather taste the warmth from love than to get diabetes from eating too much sugar. ^_^

but thats a different case for chocolate.

I'm telling you... I ( and probably alot of other people) would prefer chocolate over flowers. Be realistic.... You can't eat flowers... (well you can.. but thats not the point -_-" ) As romantic as it may be.. it'll eventually wilt and die... haha so what will that tell about the future of your relationship? Chocolate is better. Of course you'll eat it, digest it, and fluuuushhhh.. but at least you enjoyed yourself while eating it right? So.. would you rather taste love and have it go through your body(as much as it doesn't sound right).. or see it wilt and die? ahaha. I guess the second choice would apply to those who really really have unique ways of thinking.

Now ending out with guys - - .

I really don't ask for much in a guy. I just like a nice guy who can cook and has warm feet. haha. He doesn't have to be the best looking nor the smartest. Don't have to make all the money because we'll make it together ^_^ But I rather not get myself involved atm. Guys may think that girls are a waste of time and money.. Especially money but for us.. Guys are a waste of thought. Now I'm not sure if waste is the right term to refer to it because maybe eventually it'll pay off so I dunno. ^_^

For now I'll just enjoy the company of my Che buddies ^_^ They are the best after dinner food after all ^_^ - - / /

Day 1 Continues...

The day continues with my rambling about school. I’ll be back on Monday and have to deal with schoolwork once more. I never like school since I was young and as I grow older school has become a drag in my life. Although I learn quite a lot at school, I would rather not attend school. I think my parents place so much importance on school that I feel pressured to do well. Sighs…

I’m Chè Xanh, why? Because green is one of my favorite color. I don’t usually eat Chè that much especially when it is SUPER sweet. But I think we all need some sweetness in our life, the more the better. SUGAR RUSH! I personally like Chè Đậu Đỏ (red), Đen (black), and Chè Bắp (corn). What’s your favorite?

Do you want to know the inspiration, or part of why we made this blog? Basically from a Chinese Drama name Heart of Greed. In the story, this one guy wrote a journal titled "The Days Without Seung Joi Sum” telling about his daily life and how much he misses Seung Joi Sum, his ex girlfriend. It’s very touching.

Back to the topic about guys, I’m not sure what to say except that it is hard to find a good-looking good guy who is smart and has a sense of humor and is also caring. Is that too much to ask? I don’t know. You tell me. Notice I didn’t even get on the topic of money or how successfull. I think most guys feel it impresses a girl if he makes a lot of money and or successful. Well those are things do add on some extra points but it is not necessarily all there is. Well I’m off. Later.

The Days without Guys - Day 1

Day 1

Can the days be anymore self-explanatory? I'm not sure what kind of path I'm embarking on. But 'till these last few hours, I was never sure about many things. But its too soon to talk about those issues here.

So what exactly is this blog about? Days without guys. Like you haven't already heard that one before. No, this isn't a profile to prostitute ourselves or any man-hating blogs (but do excuse the everynow and then feminism spur). It's just a few of us lonely eccentric viet girls blogging about what our days are like without guys. It'll mostly involve bitchin' and food. :)

This probably isn't my first day without guys or heck, even 1 guy in my life, but it's the beginning of a phase I am trying to overcome. and I want to share it all my friends. which, if you're a true friend, you will sooo read this. (there'll be a pop quiz later).

Yes so, I'm not sure where to began, but I do know I have to end this to give the other Che's (if you haven't already guessed it, che is a vietnamese dessert) a chance to introduce themselves or whatever it is they want to do. -____- wait, I didn't introduce myself did i? lol

Okay, I'm Che Xinh Xa (I wanted to be che xinh xa hot lu, but that names too long..hahaha). I'm a really over-stressed viet chick, so bear with me. umm...my height and age might never be revealed unless you're willing to share the view of your anatomy with me. =] .......yes i'm just kidding! hmm, anything else revealed about myself will probably be hidden into really small cracks of my soon to come blogs. so stay tune!